Phil Donahue and Marlo Thomas wrote a book about marriage. It’s called “What Makes a Marriage Last: 40 Celebrated Couples Share with Us the Secrets.” In the book, they talk about their own marriage and share secrets from other couples.
Even though Marlo has been married to Phil for more than 40 years, she admits that when she was younger, she didn’t really want to get married.
In the book, Marlo Thomas talks about how she used to think marriage was like a vacuum cleaner that sucks out all your energy and ambition. She felt like living with a jailer you had to please.
But everything changed when she met Phil Donahue. They found each other after Phil’s first marriage ended, and now they have a strong bond that has lasted their whole lives.
Phil Donahue became famous with his TV show, “The Phil Donahue Show,” which later became just “Donahue.” It ran for 29 years and was the first show to let the audience join in. Marlo Thomas was a guest on his show, and meeting her changed Phil’s life.
The couple first met in Chicago in 1977. Phil Donahue already had four boys with him, and his fifth child, a daughter, lived with his ex-wife and her mother in another place.
Marlo and Phil dated for three years before getting married in 1980 in a small ceremony with 35 people.
Marlo’s friends and family were surprised by her decision to get married, given her past views on marriage. The book tells a funny story about friends at Marlo’s bridal shower putting up quotes from her that showed her previous thoughts about marriage.
According to the book, Marlo’s mom was really surprised at their wedding and kept asking Phil, “How did you get her to do this?” Even strangers, like a woman on their honeymoon plane to Greece, were shocked and disappointed that Marlo, who was known for being independent, decided to settle down.
In the book, Marlo admits that this made her doubt her choice. She wondered if she was being hypocritical since she had criticized marriage for so long. She worried that she let down fans who saw her as a symbol of independence.
Despite the challenges, Phil and Marlo make their marriage work. They talk about the ups and downs in the book, saying that those tough times helped strengthen their bond.
In the early days of their marriage, they spent time apart because Phil was taping his show in Chicago, and Marlo was traveling for her acting career. Even though they weren’t always living together, Marlo’s aunt helped her see that marriage can mean different things to different people.
Despite the distance, Marlo and Phil made their marriage successful. And one important thing to note is that Marlo not only gained a husband but also gained children when she got married.
In a 2012 interview with AARP, Marlo Thomas talked about helping to raise Phil’s children. She knew they already had a traditional mother, so she didn’t try to take on that role. Instead, she became more like a friend to Phil’s children, just like her own mother was to her.
Marlo says that her relationship with Phil’s children is even stronger now than when she first married Phil. In the book, Phil emphasizes that Marlo spent a lot of time talking to and trying to understand his sons.
Phil and Marlo think that the key to their long marriage is the trust they have in each other. Marlo says, “You build trust when you realize that this person always has your back.”
Even though they’ve been married for over 40 years, they believe there are still more memories to create together.
Phil says that for a marriage to last, both people have to really want it. Marlo agrees and says that looking back, she wouldn’t have it any other way than being married to Phil. She points out that he has supported her in every possible way.
Marriage is a wonderful connection, especially when two people fully commit to it. This couple is truly inspiring and sets a great example for all of us. We should all aim for a relationship as successful as theirs!
Mystery of Princess Catherine’s Hospitalization Finally Uncovered
This year has been packed with enlightening experiences, particularly for avid followers of the royal family. However, among various occurrences, there lies a more intimate and enigmatic narrative involving the Princess of Wales and King Charles, both grappling with cancer.
Speculation arose as to why Princess Catherine had vanished.
The public was taken aback on January 17 when Kensington Palace announced that Kate, the Princess of Wales, would be having “planned abdominal surgery” and would need time to recover. Mere hours later, Buckingham Palace released a parallel statement revealing that King Charles was receiving treatment for an enlarged prostate.
Throughout the two weeks that Princess Kate was hospitalized, Prince William was spotted departing the London Clinic in his sleek Audi. However, their children — Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis — were conspicuously absent, sparking curiosity among the public.
The decision not to appear was intentional.
Reports indicated that the decision to keep the children away was intentional. Kate didn’t want her kids to witness her in a hospital gown, attached to monitors and tubes. According to a family friend, life at home was so normal that George played a rugby match while Kate was in the hospital.
Cancer was detected in the tests conducted post-surgery in January, but this information was withheld for two months. During this period, the Wales family faced one of their toughest times. Social media buzzed with wild theories, ranging from slightly odd to utterly outlandish.
Rumors started circulating, leading the royals to reflect on their missteps.
Strangely, Kensington Palace seemed at a loss for how to handle the situation. Speculation ran rampant, with some rumors suggesting that Kate was either hidden away in a Scottish tower or preparing to leave William and move to Santa Fe.
Matters grew even stranger on February 27 when William unexpectedly canceled his attendance at his godfather King Constantine of Greece’s memorial service at St George’s Chapel, citing an unspecified “personal matter.”
However, global skepticism intensified when major photo agencies began to question the authenticity of the images. Even with the benefit of hindsight, and understanding what the Waleses were experiencing, this episode remains one of the most unusual and poorly managed in contemporary royal history.
A royal aide acknowledged that valuable lessons were learned from this ordeal.
A second public appearance.
This year has revealed that William and Kate, despite their privileges, are human and imperfect. We often overlook that the princess is a real person, not a flawless icon. Royals can still face challenges and make mistakes.
Quashing the swirling rumors and wild speculations, the Princess of Wales attended Wimbledon on July 14 which marked her second public appearance after her diagnosis. With a warm smile and a composed demeanor, she was accompanied by her sister Pippa and daughter Charlotte, immediately putting an end to the outlandish theories.
Her presence reassured everyone that she was well, effectively silencing the frenzy of speculation and reaffirming her commitment to her royal duties. This graceful appearance reminded the world of her resilience and strength, closing a tumultuous chapter in the royal family’s history.
Princess Catherine’s first public appearance since her diagnosis was on June 15 in honor of the King’s official birthday. Check the photos here.
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