My Husband Created a New Schedule for Me to ‘Become a Better Wife’ — I Taught Him a Good Lesson in Response

I was stunned when my husband, Jake, handed me a schedule to help me “become a better wife.” But instead of blowing up, I played along. Little did Jake know, I was about to teach him a lesson that would make him rethink his newfound approach to marriage.

I’ve always prided myself on being the level-headed one in our marriage. Jake, bless his heart, could get swept up in things pretty easily, whether it was a new hobby, or some random YouTube video that promised to change his life in three easy steps.

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A man on an armchair | Source: Pexels

But we were solid until Jake met Steve. Steve was the type of guy who thought being loudly opinionated made him right, the type that talks right over you when you try to correct him.

He was also a perpetually single guy (who could have guessed?), who graciously dispensed relationship advice to all his married colleagues, Jake included. Jake should’ve known better, but my darling husband was positively smitten with Steve’s confidence.

I didn’t think much of it until Jake started making some noxious comments.

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A man looking to the side | Source: Pexels

“Steve says relationships work best when the wife takes charge of the household,” he’d say. Or “Steve thinks it’s important for women to look good for their husbands, no matter how long they’ve been married.”

I’d roll my eyes and reply with some sarcastic remark, but it was getting under my skin. Jake was changing. He’d arch his eyebrows if I ordered takeout instead of cooking, and sigh when I let the laundry pile up because, God forbid, I had my own full-time job.

And then it happened. One night, he came home with The List.

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A serious woman | Source: Pexels

He sat me down at the kitchen table, unfolded a piece of paper, and slid it across to me.

“I’ve been thinking,” he started, his voice dripping with a condescending tone I hadn’t heard from him before. “You’re a great wife, Lisa. But there’s room for improvement.”

My eyebrows shot up. “Oh really?”

He nodded, oblivious to the danger zone he was entering. “Yeah. Steve helped me realize that our marriage could be even better if you, you know, stepped up a bit.”

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A man | Source: Pexels

I stared at the paper in front of me. It was a schedule… and he’d written “Lisa’s Weekly Routine for Becoming a Better Wife” at the top in bold.

This guy had actually sat down and mapped out my entire week based on what Steve — a single guy with zero relationship experience — thought I should do to “improve” myself as a wife.

I was supposed to wake up at 5 a.m. every day to make Jake a gourmet breakfast. Then I’d hit the gym for an hour to “stay in shape.”

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A woman glancing down | Source: Pexels

After that? A delightful lineup of chores: cleaning, laundry, ironing. And that was all before I left for work. I was supposed to cook a meal from scratch every evening and make fancy snacks for Jake and his friends when they came over to hang out at our place.

The whole thing was sexist and insulting on so many levels I didn’t even know where to start. I ended up staring at him, wondering if my husband had lost his mind.

“This will be great for you, and us,” he continued, oblivious.

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A happy man | Source: Pexels

“Steve says it’s important to maintain structure, and I think you could benefit from —”

“I could benefit from what?” I interrupted, my voice dangerously calm. Jake blinked, caught off guard by the interruption, but he recovered quickly.

“Well, you know, from having some guidance and a schedule.”

I wanted to throw that paper in his face and ask him if he’d developed a death wish. Instead, I did something that surprised even me: I smiled.

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A woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

“You’re right, Jake,” I said sweetly. “I’m so lucky that you made me this schedule. I’ll start tomorrow.”

The relief on his face was instant. I almost felt sorry for him as I got up and stuck the list on the fridge. Almost. He had no idea what was coming.

The next day, I couldn’t help but smirk as I studied the ridiculous schedule again. If Jake thought he could hand me a list of “improvements,” then he was about to find out just how much structure our life could really handle.

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A woman working at a table | Source: Pexels

I pulled out my laptop, opened up a fresh document, and titled it, “Jake’s Plan for Becoming the Best Husband Ever.” He wanted a perfect wife? Fine. But there was a cost to perfection.

I began by listing all the things he had suggested for me, starting with the gym membership he was so keen on. It was laughable, really.

“$1,200 for a personal trainer.” I typed, barely containing my giggle.

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A woman typing on a laptop | Source: Pexels

Next came the food. If Jake wanted to eat like a king, that wasn’t happening on our current grocery budget. Organic, non-GMO, free-range everything? That stuff didn’t come cheap.

“$700 per month for groceries,” I wrote. He’d probably need to chip in for a cooking class too. Those were pricey, but hey, perfection wasn’t free.

I leaned back in my chair, laughing to myself as I imagined Jake’s face when he saw this. But I wasn’t done. Oh no, the pièce de résistance was still to come.

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A woman laughing | Source: Pexels

See, there was no way I could juggle all these expectations while holding down my job. If Jake wanted me to dedicate myself full-time to his absurd routine, then he’d have to compensate for the loss of my income.

I pulled up a calculator, estimating the value of my salary. Then, I added it to the list, complete with a little note: “$75,000 per year to replace Lisa’s salary since she will now be your full-time personal assistant, maid, and chef.”

My stomach hurt from laughing at this point.

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A woman laughing hard | Source: Pexels

And just for good measure, I threw in a suggestion about him needing to expand the house. After all, if he was going to have his friends over regularly, they’d need a dedicated space that wouldn’t intrude on my newly organized, impossibly structured life.

“$50,000 to build a separate ‘man cave’ so Jake and his friends don’t disrupt Lisa’s schedule.”

By the time I was done, the list was a masterpiece. A financial and logistical nightmare, sure, but a masterpiece nonetheless. It wasn’t just a counterattack — it was a wake-up call.

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A woman smiling at her laptop | Source: Pexels

I printed it out, set it neatly on the kitchen counter, and waited for Jake to come home. When he finally walked through the door that evening, he was in a good mood.

“Hey, babe,” he called out, dropping his keys on the counter. He spotted the paper almost immediately. “What’s this?”

I kept my face neutral, fighting the urge to laugh as I watched him pick it up. “Oh, it’s just a little list I put together for you,” I said sweetly, “to help you become the best husband ever.”

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A grinning woman | Source: Pexels

Jake chuckled, thinking I was playing along with his little game. But as he scanned the first few lines, the grin started to fade. I could see the wheels turning in his head, the slow realization that this wasn’t the lighthearted joke he thought it was.

“Wait… what is all this?” He squinted at the numbers, his eyes widening as he saw the total costs. “$1,200 for a personal trainer? $700 a month for groceries? What the hell, Lisa?”

I leaned against the kitchen island, crossing my arms.

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A kitchen island | Source: Pexels

“Well, you want me to wake up at 5 a.m., hit the gym, make gourmet breakfasts, clean the house, cook dinner, and host your friends. I figured we should budget for all of that, don’t you think?”

His face turned pale as he flipped through the pages. “$75,000 a year? You’re quitting your job?!”

I shrugged. “How else am I supposed to follow your plan? I can’t work and be the perfect wife, right?”

He stared at the paper, dumbfounded.

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A dumbfounded man | Source: Pexels

The numbers, the absurdity of his own demands, it all hit him at once. His smugness evaporated, replaced by a dawning realization that he had seriously, seriously messed up.

“I… I didn’t mean…” Jake stammered, looking at me with wide eyes. “Lisa, I didn’t mean for it to be like this. I just thought —”

“You thought what? That I could ‘improve’ myself like some project?” My voice was calm, but the hurt behind it was real. “Jake, marriage isn’t about lists or routines. It’s about respect. And if you ever try to ‘fix’ me like this again, you’ll be paying a hell of a lot more than what’s on that paper.”

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A serious woman | Source: Pexels

Silence hung in the air, thick and uncomfortable. Jake’s face softened, his shoulders slumping as he let out a deep sigh.

“I’m sorry,” he whispered. “I didn’t realize how ridiculous it was. Steve made it sound sensible, but now I see it’s… it’s toxic. Oh God, I’ve been such a fool.”

I nodded, watching him carefully. “Yes, you have. Honestly, have you looked at Steve’s life? What makes you think he has the life experience to give you advice about marriage? Or anything else?”

The look on his face as my words hit home was priceless.

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A couple having a heated discussion | Source: Midjourney

“You’re right. And he could never afford to live like this.” He slapped the list with the back of his hand. “He… he has no idea about the costs involved, or how demeaning this is. Oh, Lisa, I got carried away again, didn’t I?”

“Yes, but we’ll recover. Now, let’s tear that paper up and go back to being equals.”

He smiled weakly, the tension breaking just a little. “Yeah… let’s do that.”

We ripped up the list together, and for the first time in weeks, I felt like we were back on the same team.

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Torn paper | Source: Pexels

Maybe this was what we needed, a reminder that marriage isn’t about one person being “better” than the other. It’s about being better together.

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

I Overheard My Daughter Saying ‘My Mom Has No Life Anyway, She’ll Have No Choice But to Babysit on Valentine’s Day’

As a single mom, I gave up my time, dreams, and everything for my daughter. But my heart broke when I overheard her laughing: “My mom has no life anyway. She’ll have no choice but to babysit on Valentine’s Day.” That’s when I decided — if she thought I had no life, I was about to show her otherwise.

Do I not deserve to have a life because I’m 45, a single mom, and a grandmother?

I never thought I’d be one this young. I had Miranda when I was 26. I worked hard and raised her right. But when she got pregnant at 18 and her boyfriend vanished into thin air, I stepped up. What else was I supposed to do? Let my daughter sink?

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A distressed senior woman | Source: Midjourney

I still remember the night she told me she was pregnant. I held her as she sobbed into my shoulder. “I’m so scared, Mom,” she whispered. “I don’t know what to do.”

“We’ll figure it out together,” I promised, stroking her hair. “You’re not alone.”

And I meant every word.

I worked late shifts so she could attend college. Gave up my weekends so she could still feel like a normal teenager, going out with her friends. I told myself, “She’s young. She deserves a little freedom. I’ll help until she gets on her feet.”

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A senior woman with a baby | Source: Midjourney

But then I overheard something that shattered me… something that made me realize my daughter had mistaken my love for obligation. The words that broke me… God, I hope no mother ever hears them.

It was the Monday before Valentine’s Day. I had just gotten home from work, exhausted, my feet throbbing and my back screaming. I was about to head to my room when I heard Miranda’s voice drifting down the hall.

I wasn’t eavesdropping until I heard my own name.

“Oh, don’t worry,” she giggled into the phone. “My mom has no life anyway. She’ll have no choice but to babysit on Valentine’s Day.”

I stopped dead in my tracks.

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A young woman laughing while talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney

She kept going.

“She told me some dumb story about having a date with her coworker, but come on… her priority is MY DAUGHTER. She won’t actually go. I’ll just make her cancel, like always.”

Then she LAUGHED. Like my canceled plans, my sacrifices, and my entire damn existence was just some JOKE to her.

I pressed my hand against the wall to steady myself, memories flooding back. The promotion I turned down because it would mean less flexibility for babysitting. The countless nights I’d spent rocking Kelly to sleep while Miranda was out “studying.” The dating profiles I’d deleted because I never had time to actually meet anyone.

Something inside me snapped. She needed to learn that being a mother didn’t mean she got a free pass to dump her responsibilities on me. If she thought I’d just keep picking up the slack forever, she had another thing coming.

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A shocked woman | Source: Midjourney

That night, she waltzed into my room, all sugar and innocence.

“Mom, I know you had that date, but I have this really special night planned for Valentine’s Day with my boyfriend, Matt. You’ll babysit, right?”

She batted her lashes. Smiled. Like I was some unpaid employee she could charm into another shift.

My hands trembled as I folded laundry, thinking of David from accounting. He’d been so genuine when he asked me out, his eyes crinkling at the corners. “Everyone deserves a second chance at happiness,” he said.

I smiled right back at Miranda. “Of course, sweetheart. Anything for you.”

She beamed. Hugged me. Told me I was “the best.”

She had no idea what was coming.

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A young woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

Valentine’s Day arrived, and Miranda practically skipped out the door. She was glowing, her little red dress hugging her figure, and her hair straightened to perfection. She barely glanced at me as she grabbed her purse.

“Kelly’s already asleep,” she said breezily. “Should be an easy night. Love you, Mom!”

She didn’t wait for a response. Didn’t check if I was okay. Because in her mind I was exactly where she expected me to be — home, in my pajamas, and babysitting her child like always.

I looked at myself in the mirror, touching the slight wrinkles around my eyes. When had I started looking so tired? And resigned? The woman staring back at me wasn’t just a grandmother or a mother… she was someone who deserved more.

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A heartbroken woman holding a mirror | Source: Midjourney

Thirty minutes later, I walked into the dimly lit restaurant with Kelly on my hip.

Miranda had been gushing about this fancy new restaurant all week, dropping the name like it was some exclusive VIP event. She never imagined I’d actually show up.

The hostess barely had time to greet me before I spotted them — Miranda, all dolled up, and across from her, some twenty-something guy with styled hair and a crisp button-down.

I marched straight up to their table. Miranda’s eyes widened.

“Mom?! What are you —”

I set Kelly in her lap.

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A startled woman in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

“At first, I was going to babysit,” I said sweetly. “But then I thought… what better way to test your relationship than to see how Matt handles real life? After all, if he’s serious about dating a single mom, he should be okay spending the night with both of you.”

Miranda’s face turned beet red.

Matt blinked. “Uh… what?”

I turned to him with a sympathetic smile.

“Oh, she didn’t tell you she has a baby? That’s odd. Considering she told me she’d make me cancel my plans for her hot date.”

Dead silence.

Kelly let out a tiny coo, oblivious to the chaos she had just been dropped into.

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A stunned young man in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

I patted Miranda’s shoulder. “Enjoy your night, sweetheart. Don’t wait up.”

And with that, I walked out, my heart pounding but my head held high.

When I got home, I barely had time to kick off my shoes before the front door slammed.

“MOM!” Miranda’s voice was shrill. “HOW COULD YOU DO THAT? YOU RUINED EVERYTHING!”

I turned slowly, crossing my arms. “You mean YOU ruined everything.”

Her mouth snapped shut.

“You heard me,” she whispered.

“Oh, I heard EVERY WORD you uttered, Miranda.”

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An angry senior woman pointing her finger at someone | Source: Midjourney

She looked away, her cheeks burning. “Mom, I didn’t mean it like that —”

I let out a sharp laugh. “Oh, you meant exactly what you said. And tonight, you got to experience what happens when you assume I’ll ALWAYS be there.”

Her lips pressed into a thin line.”You don’t understand —”

“No, YOU don’t understand. Do you know how many nights I’ve sat alone in this house, wondering where my life went? How many times I’ve cried myself to sleep because I feel invisible? I have a life, Miranda. I deserve happiness too. And you? You don’t get to treat me like a built-in babysitter just because you had a baby young.”

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A guilty woman with her eyes downcast | Source: Midjourney

Tears welled in her eyes, but she stayed quiet.

“Go to bed,” I muttered. “You need to start thinking about how you’ll do better.”

She swallowed hard. “Mom, I —”

“Not tonight, Miranda.”

And for the first time in years, I put myself first. The next morning, I sat at the kitchen table, sipping my coffee. Miranda shuffled in, her eyes puffy. She didn’t speak as she poured herself a cup.

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A woman drinking a cup of coffee | Source: Midjourney

I let the silence stretch before I finally said, “There are going to be some changes.”

She stilled.

“Your daughter is YOUR responsibility. I will help… but I will not be manipulated into canceling my life for you.”

She nodded slowly.

“I am NOT your automatic babysitter. If you need me, you ASK… not assume.”

Her throat bobbed as she swallowed.

“And if you ever talk about me like that again,” I said, voice low, “you’ll be on your own.”

Tears slipped down her cheeks. “I get it.”

“I really hope you do.”

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Portrait of a sad woman | Source: Midjourney

She sniffled. “I… I’m sorry, Mom. I never meant to make you feel… invisible.” She wiped her eyes. “When Dad left us, you were so strong. You never broke. You were always there. I guess… I started taking that strength for granted.”

I softened. “I know. But sorry isn’t enough. You need to show me.”

She gave a small nod. And for the first time, I saw it. The realization. The shift. She finally understood.

For years, I let myself be used because I thought that’s what a GOOD mother did. But you know what? A good mother teaches her child that respect goes both ways.And a great mother knows when to let her child learn the hard way.

You don’t mess with your mother just because she’s your mother. A mother isn’t just an endless well of sacrifices. She’s a person too. And I’ll be damned if I ever let my daughter forget it again.

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A stern-looking woman with her arms crossed | Source: Midjourney

A week later, I watched from my kitchen window as Miranda struggled to load Kelly’s stroller into her car. In the past, I would have rushed out immediately, taken the baby, and solved everything.

Instead, I stirred my coffee and stayed where I was.

“Mom?” Her voice drifted through the open window, a hint of desperation creeping in. “Could you…maybe…”

I waited.

She took a deep breath. “Would you please help me? I have a job interview, and Kelly’s being impossible, and I know it’s last minute, but —”

I considered her request carefully, thinking about my own plans for the day. The boundaries I’d set weren’t just for show, they were for both of us.

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A baby in a stroller | Source: Pexels

“What time is your interview?” I asked.

“Eleven. It would only be for two hours, maximum.”

“I can watch her from eleven to one,” I said finally. “But I have plans at two, so you’ll need to be back.”

The relief on her face was instant. “Thank you,” she said softly. “I mean it.”

Later that afternoon, I was getting ready for my date with David when Miranda came home. She lingered in my doorway, watching me apply lipstick.

“How did the interview go?” I asked, meeting her eyes in the mirror.

“I think… I think I got it.” She ran a hand through her hair, the exhaustion evident. “It’s at that accounting firm downtown. The one with the onsite daycare.”

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An overwhelmed woman | Source: Midjourney

I nodded, carefully blotting my lips. “Smart thinking.”

“I’ve been looking into backup daycare options too,” she added quickly, like she was trying to prove something. “And I made a schedule for Kelly’s routine. So… so you don’t have to always be the backup plan.”

The old me would have jumped in with offers to help and reassurances that I’d always be there. Instead, I simply said, “That’s good planning, Miranda.”

She shifted uncomfortably in the silence that followed. “You look nice,” she finally said. “Are you seeing David again?”

“Yes.”

“Is it… is it serious?”

I turned to face her. “Would it matter if it was?”

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An annoyed woman staring at someone | Source: Midjourney

She flinched slightly, and I saw the struggle in her eyes and the desire to fall back into old patterns and to make me feel guilty for having a life outside of her and Kelly.

“I —” she started, then stopped. Swallowed. Started again. “I’m trying to be happy for you, Mom. I really am. It’s just…”

“Just what?”

“It’s scary. Knowing I can’t always count on you being here.”

“You can count on me being your mother,” I said firmly. “But not on me giving up my life. There’s a difference.”

She nodded slowly, tears gathering in her eyes.

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An upset young woman | Source: Midjourney

The restaurant was busy when I arrived, but David had already gotten us a table. As I sat down across from him, I noticed a couple at the next table over — a young mother with a baby, trying desperately to have a conversation with her date while juggling a fussy infant.

The scene was painfully familiar.

“Everything okay?” David asked, noticing my distraction.

I smiled, turning back to him. “Just thinking about how life changes. How we change.”

“Good changes?”

I thought about Miranda, about how she was finally facing the reality of being a young single mother instead of pushing everything onto me. And about how sometimes she still slipped into expecting me to drop everything for her, and how I was learning to stay firm even when it hurt.

A senior man in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

A senior man in a restaurant | Source: Midjourney

“Necessary changes,” I answered. “The kind that hurt at first but make you stronger.”

He reached across the table, taking my hand. “You know what I admire about you? Your courage to start over. To demand respect. Not everyone can do that.”

I squeezed his hand, thinking about all the women out there — mothers, grandmothers, and caregivers — who had lost themselves in the act of loving others.

“Sometimes,” I said softly, “the bravest thing we can do is remember who we are. Not just who we are to other people, but who we are to ourselves.”

A heartbroken but confident woman | Source: Midjourney

A heartbroken but confident woman | Source: Midjourney

Life isn’t a fairy tale. Because here’s the truth about mothers and daughters: we’re always growing, always learning, and always finding new ways to love each other. Sometimes that love looks like holding on. Sometimes it looks like letting go.

And sometimes, it looks like standing in your own truth and saying: “I am more than what you need me to be. I am a woman with dreams, desires, and a life of my own.”

And that doesn’t make me less of a mother. It makes me more of myself.

And in the end, that’s the greatest gift I could give to my daughter — showing her that a woman’s worth isn’t measured by how much she sacrifices. It’s measured by how truly she lives.

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A woman smiling | Source: Midjourney

This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided “as is,” and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.

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