My husband and I were meant to be a team when we welcomed our first child, but he turned on me. Recently, I experienced one of the most embarrassing and eye-opening moments of my life. Let me backtrack a bit. My husband, Jake, 29, and I welcomed our beautiful daughter, Tilly, three weeks ago.
Whenever I ask Tilly’s father for help, he says, “Let me relax; my paternity leave is so short.” I’ve struggled alone with sleepless nights, and things went too far last Saturday during a family gathering. As the party progressed, Jake was busy telling everyone, “I needed this paternity leave because I couldn’t imagine how much more exhausted I would have been working AND taking care of the baby.”
Exhausted, I fainted right there in the middle of the party. I awoke to concerned family members and Jake’s frown. He later exploded at home, annoyed that I embarrassed him, accusing me of making him “look bad!”
Just as I was about to leave for my mom’s place, my in-laws arrived with a professional nanny they had hired. “She’s here to help with the baby and to teach Jake about caring for her,” my MIL explained. They also insisted I go on a spa retreat for a week.
Overwhelmed by their kindness, I immediately agreed. The week was blissful and helped me recover. Back home, the changes were remarkable! The nanny had put Jake through a rigorous “baby boot camp.” He learned to change diapers, cook baby meals, soothe a crying baby, and manage a sleep schedule. Jake greeted me with a heartfelt apology, having sold his vintage guitars to pay for the nanny and my retreat, showing his commitment to our family.
Diver swam in Hawaii: dolphin asked him for help
In Hawaii, divers were swimming with manta rays when all of a sudden, one approached a dolphin. It approached one of the divers quite closely, as though it needed assistance. Divers understood what it wanted very soon.
Its fin was found to be stuck with a fishing line and hook, which undoubtedly caused it great discomfort and made it difficult for it to swim.
He took great care to remove the hook, but his task was not yet done. There is still tangle of fishing line around the fin.
The diver’s scissors came in handy, allowing him to release the dolphin. When the dolphin broke free, he bid it farewell.
The level of intelligence in these organisms is astounding. When a dolphin approached the diver in need of assistance, he gave it. Before it took off, it gave him a quick glance as though to say “thank you.”
Keller Laros, a stingray expert and certified diving instructor, supplied the photos. He utilizes his photos to investigate manta rays because he is an obsessive underwater photographer.
In addition, Laros is president and co-founder of the non-profit Manta Pacific study Foundation, which is committed to “research and protection of manta rays and the marine environment.”
Throughout his career, this significant work allowed Lars to release numerous law enforcement officers and sea turtles from fishing nets (which is why he carried scissors). However, this was the first occasion a dolphin approached the diver in need of assistance.
Luckily, someone recorded this heartfelt encounter, and it has been viewed millions of times since. On his website, Laros stated, “It was a really amazing experience.”
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