There must be something rejuvenating in that Hollywood water! That’s a thought we all have in our heads from time to time when looking at pictures of forever fresh stars that seem to not have understood the concept of time. While we count how many new grey hairs grew this month, these celebrities keep on shocking us with the inconsistency of their age and their appearance.
Here at Bright Side, we love following celebrities, especially if it seems like they know the secrets of staying young and fresh forever. There’s definitely something we need to learn from them.
1. Eve, 1992 vs 2019
Eve started her career at a young age and has over 20 years of being under the spotlight. Now she’s 42, and it looks like years haven’t left any marks on her.
2. Gabrielle Union, 2009 vs 2021
The Bring It On and Being Mary Jane star shared that at 48 she has a few rules that boost her glow. She drinks enough water, makes sure she gets at least 8 hours of sleep, and exercises.
3. Queen Latifah, 1987 vs 2020
The Oscar-nominated, Grammy- and Emmy-winning singer and actress turned 51 on March 18. Queen shares that she does eat a lot of vegetables and lean meats, hydrates religiously and thinks that as long as you’re young at heart, your actual age doesn’t really matter.
4. Alicia Silverstone, 1992 vs 2020
The Clueless star, who is 44 years old, says that her diet is the secret to her youth — Alicia is vegan and leads an eco-friendly lifestyle. She shares that once she gave up meat and dairy, she started looking better after just 2 weeks.
5. Jeremy Piven, 2005 vs 2021
The famous American actor and comedian shared that he lifts weights, jumps rope, and does jiujitsu. He also said in an interview that he has been doing yoga for decades and goes for a run when he wakes up.
6. Alfre Woodard, 1995 vs 2020
Alfre Woodard is now 68 years old, but looking at her pictures from the past, it feels like she just changes outfits and hairstyles, but doesn’t age at all.
7. Jamie Foxx, 2004 vs 2021
There is always a question when it comes to Jamie Foxx — how does he still look as young as he did in the 2000s? Back then, when he was 33, he had his own series, The Jamie Foxx Show. Today, he’s 53 and still a popular actor that seems to have found the fountain of youth.
8. Sharon Stone, 2002 vs 2021
The 63-year-old actress shares that her secret of youth is something she took from her mom — she shares that she gave her a jar of moisturizer and told her to clean her skin and moisturize morning and night, and that’s what she does.
9. Bianca Lawson, 1991 vs 2019
Bianca Lawson has played teenagers on-screen since 1993 and it’s really no surprise why. The Buffy The Vampire Slayer and Pretty Little Liars star is 42, but you can’t tell since her glowing skin looks like it’s ageless. Bianca shares that she prefers natural sweeteners to sugar and tea to coffee and believes that youth is a mentality, so to stay young you have to reduce stress and enjoy life.
10. Alicia Keys, 1997 vs 2021
The 40-year-old singer not only looks young and fresh, but she also manages to look younger than her years without wearing heavy makeup — she advocates for embracing natural beauty and actually has incredible skin. Her routine includes jade rolling, oils, and cucumber pulp.
11. Elizabeth Hurley, 2001 vs 2021
Today the British model is 54 years old, but in her latest Instagram posts, she legitimately looks like a girl in her 20s. And though it looks effortless, she does put a lot of effort into it. Her methods are hydration, a balanced diet, and workouts. For example, Elizabeth does squats while brushing her teeth and considers gardening her main form of exercise.
12. Helena Christensen, 1998 vs 2020
It’s hard to believe, but the famous supermodel turns 52 this year, showing her flawless body on her Instagram account. Helena shared that in Denmark, where she’s from, people are taught to not hide anything when it comes to what nature gave them.
13. Janet Jackson, 1998 vs 2020
The music legend turned 55 in May and it seems like 20 years have left no marks on her face. Jackson doesn’t really share her secrets to staying young, though she mentioned that she has a mostly plant-based diet, doesn’t eat meat, and that she has a long-term relationship with fitness.
What’s your secret to staying youthful? We’d be happy to see your comments in the section below.
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Is it rude to ask guests to remove their shoes
Ever found yourself hesitating to ask a guest to remove their shoes, only to be told by someone, like your mother-in-law, that you’re being discourteous? You’re not alone! It’s a surprisingly polarizing topic that touches on cleanliness, cultural customs, and hosting etiquette. So, is it really rude to request this, or is it simply a matter of personal preference?
Understanding the Cultural Context of Shoe Removal
One of the biggest factors shaping opinions on this issue is culture. In many Asian and Scandinavian households, removing shoes is not just polite—it’s a must. It’s seen as a sign of respect and a way to keep homes clean and sacred. On the other hand, many Western cultures don’t place as much emphasis on this practice. Guests often keep their shoes on indoors, and requesting otherwise might be considered unusual.
Does this mean you shouldn’t ask guests to remove their shoes if it’s part of your household tradition? Absolutely not! The key is recognizing that cultural norms differ. Being aware of these differences can help you approach the topic in a way that’s both respectful and confident.
Health and Hygiene: The Case for Bare Floors
If you’ve ever looked at the bottom of a pair of shoes after a long day, you already know they’re not exactly clean. Shoes can track in dirt, bacteria, and allergens that could easily spread around your home. For families with small kids crawling on the floor or those with allergies, maintaining a shoe-free home can be a lifesaver.
Think about it: would you want the same shoes that trudged through public bathrooms or muddy sidewalks to stomp across your living room carpet? Probably not. Explaining this perspective to your guests can make your request feel less like an arbitrary rule and more like a thoughtful choice for the health of everyone in the household.
Does Hosting Etiquette Really Say No to Shoe Removal?
Traditional hosting etiquette often emphasizes guest comfort, suggesting that making guests feel at home should be your top priority. But modern etiquette acknowledges that it’s equally important to respect the host’s rules. After all, it’s your home, and you’re entitled to set boundaries.
The trick is finding a balance. Yes, you want your guests to feel comfortable, but you also want to feel comfortable in your own space. Asking guests to remove their shoes doesn’t have to be a big deal—it’s all about how you frame the request. Approach it with kindness, and most guests will happily comply.
Managing Family Dynamics: When Your Mother-in-Law Disagrees
Let’s face it: family dynamics can complicate even the simplest decisions. If your mother-in-law insists that asking guests to remove their shoes is “rude,” it can feel like you’re caught in the middle. So, how do you handle this without creating tension?
Start by having a calm conversation. Explain why this practice matters to you—whether it’s about cleanliness, cultural tradition, or personal preference. Acknowledge her perspective, but make it clear that this is a decision you’ve made for your home. Compromise can help here; for example, you could consider allowing exceptions for certain guests or occasions while sticking to your rule in everyday situations.
How to Politely Ask Guests to Remove Their Shoes
So, how do you actually ask someone to take their shoes off without sounding rude or awkward? It’s all about tone and preparation. Here are a few tips:
- Set the Tone Beforehand: If possible, let guests know about your shoe-free policy before they arrive. A simple mention in an invitation—like, “Feel free to bring comfy socks; we’re a shoe-free household!”—can go a long way.
- Provide Comfort: Make the transition easier by offering a designated shoe rack by the door and providing clean slippers or cozy socks for guests who might feel uncomfortable going barefoot.
- Use Polite Language: When guests arrive, frame the request as a preference rather than a demand. For example, “We usually ask everyone to leave their shoes at the door to keep things clean. Thanks so much!”
When you approach the topic with thoughtfulness, most people will appreciate your effort and won’t think twice about slipping off their shoes.
Balancing Tradition and Modern Practices
Incorporating traditions while respecting modern hosting practices can be a delicate dance. Traditional etiquette might emphasize catering to guests’ every need, but modern hosting often focuses on mutual respect and consideration. Striking the right balance means blending these approaches.
For instance, if you’re hosting a formal dinner party and you know some guests might find shoe removal awkward, consider making an exception for that event. But during casual gatherings or day-to-day visits, stick to your shoe-free rule. Flexibility shows thoughtfulness while still honoring your personal boundaries.
When Compromise Isn’t an Option
What if you have guests who outright refuse to take their shoes off, or your mother-in-law insists on overriding your rule? In these cases, it’s essential to stand your ground politely but firmly. Your home is your sanctuary, and maintaining its cleanliness and comfort is your right.
If someone disagrees, remind them that this isn’t about being “rude” or “discourteous.” It’s about creating an environment that works for your household. Offering alternatives—like slippers for those who prefer not to go barefoot—can help smooth over any discomfort.
Conclusion: Creating a Home That Reflects Your Values
Ultimately, asking guests to remove their shoes isn’t rude—it’s a reflection of your values and preferences. Whether you’re motivated by cleanliness, cultural tradition, or personal comfort, it’s entirely reasonable to expect guests to respect your house rules. The key is clear, kind communication and a willingness to accommodate others’ needs whenever possible.
At the end of the day, successful hosting isn’t about rigid adherence to etiquette or sacrificing your boundaries. It’s about creating an environment where both you and your guests feel respected and at ease. So, go ahead—ask politely, offer slippers, and enjoy a clean, happy home that truly feels like your own.
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