Even the most elaborate look can be spoiled by a bad hairstyle which can easily make you look 10 years older, distort your facial features or even your body. We’ve put together 10 hairstyles that are worth avoiding.
Contrasting coloring
Contrast coloring is considered outdated. Nowadays, more natural and soft transitions are in vogue. Smooth and barely noticeable accents on individual strands look much more refined and sophisticated, adding freshness to your look and volume to your hair.
Blunt bob with baby bangs
Recently, some celebrities returned to a controversial trend from the 1990s and got very short bangs. However, stylists believe that women after 40 should avoid baby bangs because these can make them look older.
Straight bangs that reach eyebrows
Many people believe that these bangs help you visually correct the height of the forehead and make the face more symmetrical. But it can play a bad joke on your appearance — it can visually age a person and steal hair volume.
Complicated braids
We are used to seeing Rosamund Pike with short, straight hair. But recently, the actress appeared in public with a slightly longer hairstyle. But it doesn’t always look up-to-date, like these braids, for example.
Currently, complicated braids are giving way to simpler hairstyles. The more natural and careless hairstyle with braids is better.
Unnatural hair coloring
Hilary Duff decided to make drastic changes in her looks after the divorce from her first husband, and we can understand that. But bright, unnatural colors, like blue, green, or pink, are becoming less and less popular. More muted shades that emphasize individuality without being too extravagant are in fashion now.
Middle-parted, chin-length bobm
Hair stylists believe that this bob often emphasizes fine lines, wrinkles and signs of thinning hair on mature women. It’s best to opt for a bob with a side parting or a pixie cut.
Bob with blunt bangs
Experts believe that this haircut can visually add age. The length of the bangs is key here. If it covers the eyebrows, it highlights signs of aging. In addition, the jaw seems more massive than it really is.
Shaved sides
Haircuts with shaved sides were at the peak of popularity 15 years ago, but now they are losing their positions. Many people believe that this type of haircut distorts the appearance.
But Tilda Swinton just loves short haircuts and has stayed loyal to them for many years. Let’s look at the photos above: in the left photo, the actress’s sides look too short, while in the right photo, the hair softly frames her face.Thick side-swept bangs
Thick side-swept bangs
These bangs tend to distort facial features because they can easily cover one eye. In addition, they draw attention to skin imperfections.
Mallet
The mallet hairstyle can be roughly described as «shorter in the front, longer in the back.» Modern fashion trends tend to favor more harmonious and versatile haircuts that can be easily adapted to different looks.
And here are hairstyle tips that can help you enhance your facial features.
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Not everyone will understand.
Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. However, when things start to feel off, it’s easy for doubts to take over. Recently, I found myself questioning my girlfriend’s behavior, and it all centered around her work schedule.
She works at a bank, which typically closes at 4:30 PM. However, she’s been coming home around 9:30 PM every night. At first, I didn’t think much of it—maybe she had extra work. But as days passed, the uneasiness grew. Was she really staying late for work, or was there something more?
I couldn’t shake off the feeling that something wasn’t right. Could she be lying? Was she seeing someone else? These thoughts kept running through my mind, making me question everything.
Jumping to Conclusions vs. Seeking the Truth
It’s human nature to assume the worst when things don’t add up. I had two choices:
- Let paranoia consume me and start making accusations.
- Communicate and seek clarity before making assumptions.
I chose the second option. Instead of letting suspicion take over, I decided to analyze the situation logically.
Understanding the Nature of Banking Jobs
One of the first things I did was research bank work schedules. Most banks do close by 4:30 PM, but that doesn’t mean employees leave at that time.
Here’s why bank employees might stay late:
Processing daily transactions and balancing accounts. Preparing reports for the next business day. Handling security checks and audits. Attending meetings and training sessions.
It turns out, overtime in the banking sector isn’t uncommon, especially for those in higher positions or involved in finance management.
Could this be why my girlfriend was getting home late? It was a strong possibility.
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The Importance of Communication
Instead of silently harboring doubts, I did what any rational partner should do—I talked to her.
I casually asked, “How was work today?” I listened carefully to what she said. I paid attention to her body language.
Turns out, she had been staying late to complete extra tasks and wasn’t intentionally hiding anything from me. It was just work—nothing more, nothing less.
That conversation saved me from unnecessary stress, doubt, and potential damage to our relationship.
Trust in a Relationship: A Two-Way Street
Many relationships fail not because of actual betrayal, but due to lack of trust and communication. My situation made me realize that:
Jumping to conclusions can ruin a good relationship. Communication is the only way to resolve doubts. Trust is built over time, and small doubts can weaken it.
Imagine if I had accused her of lying without any proof. It could have caused unnecessary fights and resentment.
What I Learned from This Experience
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Doubts are normal, but how you handle them matters. Being insecure and jumping to conclusions only leads to regret. Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt strengthens the relationship.
Instead of letting anxiety and overthinking control me, I chose understanding and trust. And guess what? I was wrong to assume the worst.
Final Thoughts: Not Everyone Will Understand
Some people may think, “If you’re doubting her, maybe there’s a reason.” But the truth is, sometimes our own insecurities create problems that don’t exist.
If something in your relationship feels off, don’t jump to accusations—instead, talk about it.
At the end of the day, trust and communication are the real secrets to a strong relationship. Without them, even the best relationships can fall apart.
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