Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
Messi, the Dog From ‘Anatomy of a Fall’, Goes Viral With Reaction to Robert Downey Jr. Win
Messi the dog was seen applauding with his paws from the audience after Robert Downey Jr. won the Oscar for Best Supporting Actor for his role in Christopher Nolan’s Oppenheimer.
The 7-year-old border collie from Anatomy of the Fall, dressed in his finest attire with a stylish bowtie, secured a seat in the front row at the Dolby Theater. Alongside the evening’s top human stars, Messi the dog enjoyed prime seating.
Throughout the event, viewers caught glimpses of Messi applauding for all the stars and nominees inside the Dolby Theatre in Hollywood, even during pre-taped segments.
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While Messi undoubtedly captured the spotlight with his adorable presence at the Oscars, another heartwarming moment has also captured our attention.
Following Robert Downey Jr.’s receipt of the Oscar for Best Supporting Actor for his role in Christopher Nolan’s Oppenheimer, Messi the dog was seen applauding enthusiastically with his paws from the audience.
In response, online users shared their reactions to the furry movie star.
«They really had Messi, the dog from ‘Anatomy of a Fall,’ applauding Robert Downey Jr. after his acceptance speech lol,» one X (formerly known as Twitter) user wrote.
In the film, Messi portrays Snoop, the service dog of Milo (Milo Machado-Graner). Directed by Justine Triet and written by Triet and Arthur Harari, the movie, nominated for Best Picture, revolves around a woman who stands trial for the murder of her husband.
The 2024 Oscars also showcased the anticipated stylish attire of guests, highlighting the most elegant dresses, classy suits, and memorable fashion moments.
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