As parents, we tend to teach our children to know right from wrong, but oftentimes, because of different reasons, we fail. One father learned that his daughter was bullying a girl who had cancer at school. Things went far and she even pulled the girl’s wig off. This made the father angry so he decided to take matters in his own hands and punished his daughter in a way that caused a stir, as well as mixed emotions, on the Internet. Since many slammed him for how he dealt with his bully daughter, the father later deleted the post.
“My ex-wife and I have a 16-year-old daughter together of which I have full custody (she has moved on with her new family)… My daughter recently got in trouble at school for making fun of a student that lost her hair from cancer treatment. Including pulling off her wig,” he started his post.
“Apparently there is some pre-existing bad blood between the two of them, but I don’t think that even begins to excuse her behavior.”
As it turned out, his daughter was now dating this other girl’s ex-boyfriend and that was the reason why they weren’t fond of each other.
“At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter’s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a sl*t,” the father shared with CafeMom. “That’s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage ‘he said she said’ nonsense.”After he learned of what was going on and what his daughter did, he gave her two options to choose from in order to teach her a lesson. The first one was for him to throw all her electronics away, and the second one was for her to go to the hairdresser and get a bald haircut. The daughter chose the latter and went to school with a bald head.
“…Everyone thinks I went way overboard. Her mother went ballistic at me saying it will make her the target of bullying (kind of the point, teach her some compassion),” the father wrote.
He believed he did just the right thing, but not many agreed with him. A lot of people took their time to comment on the situation. One person wrote: “Your daughter is a bully because you are a bully. I seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to ‘teach her a lesson.’” Another person added: “There’s a term for what you did. It’s called child abuse. Taking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She’s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.”
However, there were also those who praised his parenting. “I support your decision completely. You’re her parent so you have every right to do this, it’s not abusive, it’s real life. If she’s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels,” someone in support of the father wrote.
“She will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson,” another supporter added.
So, what do you think? Do you believe the father went too far with the punishment? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.
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My Grandma Met Her Long-Lost Sweetheart in a Nursing Home — The Huge Secret She Revealed Turned His Life Upside Down
My Grandma Met Her Long-Lost Sweetheart in a Nursing Home — The Huge Secret She Revealed Turned His Life Upside Down
Hold on to your hats! This unbelievable story completely transformed my life. It’s practically a movie plot waiting to happen! My name’s Mia and this wild tale is about my amazing grandma, Grammy. Buckle up, because it’s about to get awesome.
So, let me introduce you to my beloved Grammy. She’s the most kind-hearted, sweet, and loving woman you ever met. I adore her with all my heart, and to me, she’s the best grandmother in the world.
A woman hugging her grandmother | Source: Midjourney
One lazy Sunday afternoon, Grammy brought up something she had mentioned a few times before. She wanted to move to a retirement home. We sat in her cozy living room, sunlight streaming through the lace curtains, sipping on chamomile tea.
“Mia, dear, I’ve been thinking about the retirement home again,” Grammy said, her voice gentle but firm.
I put down my cup, trying to hide my sadness. “Grammy, I understand. You want to be around people your age, and you deserve to enjoy your time without worrying about us.”
A woman and her grandmother talking in their living room | Source: Midjourney
Her eyes softened. “It’s not that I don’t love being with you all. I just think it would be nice to have friends around, and not feel like I’m a burden.”
“You’re never a burden, Grammy,” I said, reaching over to hold her hand. “But if this is what you want, I’ll support you.”
A few weeks later, the day came. We went to the retirement home, and I helped Grammy with the registration and moving in. The place was lovely, with well-kept gardens and cheerful staff.
Senior citizens and staff members inside a nursing home | Source: Midjourney
Grammy seemed happy, which made it easier for me to handle the lump in my throat. After we finished the registration, we decided to check out the local café inside the home. As we waited in line for our coffee, something incredible happened.
“Peter? Is that you?” Grammy’s voice was a mix of shock and excitement. I turned to see an elderly man, about Grammy’s age, standing there with a look of surprise on his face.
“Mary?” he replied, his voice trembling. “Mary, it’s been so long!”
An elderly man standing in a nursing home | Source: Midjourney
Guys, it was her high school sweetheart, Peter! They hadn’t seen each other in almost 60 years. My jaw practically hit the floor.
“Grammy, who is this?” I asked, looking between them.
“Oh, Mia, this is Peter,” she said, her eyes misty. “Peter, this is my granddaughter, Mia.”
Peter smiled warmly at me. “It’s nice to meet you, Mia. Your grandmother and I were very close a long time ago.”
They hugged, and it was such an emotional moment. After the initial shock, we sat down at a table.
An elderly couple meeting in a nursing home’s café | Source: Midjourney
They started talking, reminiscing about the days when they were together. It was like watching a live version of one of those feel-good, romantic movies.
“Do you remember how we used to sneak into the old basement in the schoolyard?” Grammy asked, her eyes sparkling.
Peter laughed. “Oh, those were the days. We thought we were so sneaky.”
They went on like that for a while, sharing stories and laughing. Then, out of nowhere, Grammy went silent. Tears started rolling down her cheeks. Peter leaned over and hugged her tenderly.
A very sad-looking elderly woman is sitting in a nursing home’s café | Source: Midjourney
“Mary, what’s wrong?” he asked, his voice full of concern.
But then Grammy said something that changed Peter’s life forever, and mine too!
Grammy took a deep breath. “Peter, I need to tell you something. I’LL NEVER FORGIVE MYSELF for this, and I’m sure you won’t either, but you need to know. Actually, you…” She paused to take a deep breath.
“What is it, Mary? You’re scaring me,” Peter interjected, his facial expression a blend of shock and confusion.
“Peter, you are the father of my son, Steve.” There was a deafening silence after Grammy’s bombshell revelation. Peter was taken aback, but so was I.
An extremely shocked elderly man in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
“But how… I mean, why didn’t you…” Peter stammered, clearly at a loss for words.
Grammy took a shaky breath and began, “Peter, my family was against us being together. They threatened to disown me if I didn’t leave you. But I loved you so much, I went to the prom with you anyway. That night, we… we slept together. Do you remember?” She paused, looking down at her hands.
Peter became uneasy in his seat and while some might have thought it was due to his age, that wasn’t quite the case. He then buried his face into his hands and it was clear that he remembered everything he and Grammy had experienced all those years back.
A young couple at a prom | Source: Midjourney
“A few days later, you told me your parents wanted you to continue your studies in another state,” Grammy continued. “You said it would be better for everyone because my family wouldn’t disown me if you were gone.”
Peter’s eyes widened in shock. “I thought I was doing the right thing, Mary. I thought it would save you from losing your family.”
Grammy nodded, tears streaming down her face. “I know, but it broke my heart. You left, and a few weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. I didn’t know where you had moved, and I couldn’t reach you. I ran away from home, Peter. I left a note for my parents, but they never looked for me. They were too ashamed.”
A sad young woman sitting alone in her room | Source: Midjourney
As Grammy recounted this painful part of her past, Peter’s face grew pale. Tears streamed down his cheeks as he listened, and I could see the remorse and pain in his eyes.
“Mary, I… I had no idea. I thought I was doing what was best for you. If I had known…” Peter’s voice broke, and he hugged Grammy tightly. “I’m so sorry. I looked for you for years, but I could never find you.”
We sat there, the three of us, wrapped in a moment of shared grief and love. It felt like time had stopped, and all the years of pain and separation were finally being healed.
An elderly man crying while sitting in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
“Mary,” Peter said softly, “from now on, we won’t lose each other again. I promise.”
Grammy smiled through her tears. “I promise too, Peter.”
From that day on, Peter and Grammy were inseparable. They spent all their time together in the retirement home, making up for the lost years.
“Let’s take a walk in the garden, Mary,” Peter would say every afternoon, taking her hand.
“Yes, let’s,” Grammy would reply, her face lighting up with joy.
An elderly couple sharing a hug | Source: Midjourney
They attended activities together, from painting classes to movie nights, always side by side. They even started a little tradition of having coffee at the café every morning.
“Good morning, lovebirds,” I would tease whenever I visited them at the café.
“Mia, come join us,” Grammy would say, waving me over with a smile.
I visited them often, getting to know Peter as my biological grandfather. He was a kind and gentle man, full of stories and wisdom. It was like having a piece of the past come alive and join our present.
An elderly couple having coffee together in a nursing home café | Source: Midjourney
One afternoon, while the three of us sat in the café where two long-lost lovers had reunited, I turned to Peter and said, “Tell me about your childhood, Grandpa Peter.” As soon as those last two words left my lips, I regretted them.
Quickly, I corrected myself. “Oh, I’m sorry for calling you Grandpa. It’s just that I’ve missed my Gramps ever since he passed away some fifteen years ago.’”
“That’s okay, dear Mia. You can call me Grandpa Peter. I don’t mind at all. Yeah, so, it was a different time back then…” he began, his eyes twinkling with memories.
A woman laughing with her grandfather outdoors | Source: Midjourney
Ultimately, this unexpected reunion brought us so much joy and closure. Grammy and Peter found each other again, proving that true love can withstand the test of time and adversity. As for me, I gained a grandfather and witnessed a love story that I will cherish forever.
The universe does work in mysterious ways, don’t you think?
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